Sgt. Matthew C. Bohling, 22, of Eagle River, Alaska, died on Sept. 5, 2005, in Ar Ramadi, Iraq, where an improvised explosive device detonated near his HMMWV during combat operations. Bohling was assigned to the 2nd Battalion, 69th Armor Regiment, 3rd Brigade, 3rd Infantry Division, Fort Benning, Ga.
Some Soldiers Mom was at his memorial service at Fort Benning, GA. Her son—who was wounded in August when a VBIED shattered much of the building he was in—was also at the memorial service.
There are few things more difficult to watch than the Roll Call at a soldier(s)’ memorial service. But there are fewer things more important to bear witness to either.
A prayer is offered. A soulful performance of Amazing Grace follows by Sgt. D. Then the roll call I dread is upon us. The members of the Company are called to attention and Sgt. T., Sgt. N. and Noah stand sharply with fists unnaturally clenched stiffly at their sides as if holding on to the past, the present, the future… just these three standing among the many assembled. Loudly, Sgt F. standing ramrod straight at the head of the nave stares stone faced out across those in attendance and stridently calls each of the first three names, and each loudly responds their presence.
Then the Sgt. calls out in the quiet of the chapel, “Sgt. Bohling.†There is no response. Louder now, “Sgt. Matthew Bohling.†Again there is no response. Louder still as if this time someone will answer, slowly in a stern barked cadence with a slight pause between each word, “Sgt. Matthew Charles Bohling.†There is only silence in return until the sharp report of the first of three volleys from the rifles shriek through the air from outside the chapel, followed by the ever mournful notes of “Taps†that falter midway as if the bugle or bugler is overcome. The sounds of sniffles and shallow weeping can be heard from all corners of the nearly full chapel.
Whenever I learn about the death of another US Soldier, I am reminded of the closing words of the St. Crispin’s Day Speech in Shakespeare’s Henry V:
From this day to the ending of the world,
But we in it shall be remember’d;
We few, we happy few, we band of brothers;
For he today that sheds his blood with me
Shall be my brother; be he ne’er so vile,
This day shall gentle his condition:
And gentlemen in England now a-bed
Shall think themselves accursed they were not here,
And hold their manhoods cheap whiles any speaks
That fought with us upon Saint Crispin’s day.
Godspeed, Sgt. Bohling.
h/t: BlackFive
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Thanks, Sgt. Bohling, for being willing when so many are not. I appreciate that. Hopefully, you’re in a better place now.
I want to say THANK YOU to Noah’s mom for taking the time to write about the Memorial Service at Ft. Benning in my son, Matthew C. Bohling’s honor. We will always remember Matthew and take pride in knowing that our son as so many have done so, died doing what he strongly believed in.
God Bless Noah, his mother and so many folks who have taken the time to go to various websites and write us Messages.
Sandra Bohling – Matthew’s Mom