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Parents blame the train

Four Houston-area teenagers are dead after the stolen SUV they were riding in hit a parked train around 4:12 a.m. (remember, nothing good happens after 4:00 a.m.):

“Excessive speed might have been involved,” Lt. Darryl Coleman with the Harris County Sheriff’s Office said. “We are way early in this investigation and it’s going to take a long time to cross all the T’s and dot all the I’s.”

Lt. John Martin, spokesman for the sheriff’s office, said a train with about 100 cars was stopped when the driver of a Jeep Cherokee, who was headed east, slammed into it.

“Apparently the driver didn’t see the train and the driver hit a tanker car,” Martin said. “The impact tore the roof off the Jeep and the rest of the vehicle continued underneath the train.”

Deaths were instant

The four backseat passengers — Colette Windham, Loral Moyers, Macy Moyers and Austin Davis — died instantly, he said. Authorities said the ages of the four ranged from 17 to 13 but a family member of one of the dead girls said she was 12. Nearly eight hours after the crash, the gender and ages of the victims remained unsettled. Questions remained about whether there were three boys and three girls involved or two boys and four girls.

The 15-year-old male driver of the Jeep, Bobby Davis, was taken by helicopter to Memorial Hermann Hospital and listed in critical condition, Martin said. The front seat passenger, 15-year-old Blake Barger, was taken to Hermann and listed in stable condition, he said. Families and friends of the injured boys gathered at the hospital this morning.

This is a tragic accident that didn’t have to happen. You have:

  • an inexperienced, under-aged, unlicensed driver
  • he was driving too fast (posted speed limit was 30 mph)
  • a stolen vehicle that the kids were out joy riding in
  • it was around 4:00 a.m. in the morning, when these kids should have been home

The parents are understandably upset and shaken. But their anger is misdirected. The fault of this accident lies 100% with their children. Instead they are blaming — the railroad company:

As the bodies of the victims lay nearby, Union Pacific spokesman Joe Arbona was berated by the Moyers family and other area residents because of the lack of active signals at the crossing.

“This is a dangerous place and you need to do something about it,” grandfather Donald Moyers said. “I’m going to go on a crusade.”

Arbona expressed sorrow at the family’s loss but the family accused him of being at the scene to “sugarcoat” the situation.

Come on people — why is it so damn hard for people to accept responsibility and blame for bad things that happen?

I’m sorry that your kids are dead. But it’s not the trains fault, or the engineers fault, or the railroads fault that your kid drove a speeding and stolen SUV full of other curfew breaking kids into a parked train. It’s his fault. And his fault alone.

24 Responses to “15-Year Old Kid Runs Stolen SUV into Parked Train in Houston”

Wow. You’ve got kids from what appears to be four different families out joyriding all night long and not one family knew they were gone? Amazing.

The families will have to live with this. I suppose the only way they can is to blame someone else…the ultimate denial. What a sad story.

Jeeze- Give them a break. Do you really expect people who lost a child to act rationally?

Yeah, their kids screwed up and it cost them their lives. That’s not a realization that people want to accept immediately.

I expect them not to immediately scream lawsuit.

My comment was more about hour our culture has become one of “blame anybody but the person at fault”, and how this story is indicative of that travesty.

If you are stealing cars at fifteen years old, what crime will you be working your way up to by, let’s say, nineteen years old? Sad story, indeed. But, I have to say that I am wondering what the future held for these young criminals?

Colette was a friend of our children’s. All I can say is - what a dual life she was leading. I never would have imagined this for her. And you are absolutely right, trying to blame Union Pacific is absurd. If you notice, Dean Moyers brother (I’m assuming) flat out said that his daughter made a bad choice that cost her life. Grieving, but realistic dad. The kids are to blame, period, end of story.

okay dumbasses
loral was my sister so fuck yall

Paige, you sound like a lovely young lady. I see how well your parents have taught “yall”. What a lucky gal you are!

I must say that I am relieved that no innocent humans died during the crime spree committed by the young folk in the vehicle that night.

May those affected by this tragedy find peace. And education on the matters at hand……

“The fault of this accident lies 100% with their children.”
sorry robbie; i knew this day would come but we simply don’t agree here.
kma, you’ve eluded to who should be blamed. kudos!
preston, i should’ve expected this but your rushing to defend the criminals, as usual.
paige, sorry for your loss; we appreciate you making the time to promptly and rationally respond to blog posts about your misfortune. i sincerely hope you and your family learn from this and make some drastic changes!

where were the parents of these kids? shouldn’t they be held accountable for the criminal actions of their minor children? who pays for the destroyed train and stolen car? parental neglect is a serious issue in our society; maybe the victims’ families will one day buck up and own this situation.
the fact is kids do dumb shit sometimes and sometimes accidents happen. what’s the excuse for these criminally negligent parents?

Adam-
Would you mind pointing to the phrase in which I defend any criminal behavior?

BTW- classy response to a teenager who has just lost a sister.

FWIW- I more or less agree with the obvious point that the parents have a lot to be accountable for. I guess I just weigh the loss of human life more than a stolen car.

“Would you mind pointing to the phrase in which I defend any criminal behavior?”
no, i wouldn’t mind at all. “Give them a break.” and i do stand corrected; i should have said alleged criminal behavior because i believe that the degree of negligence on the part of these parents was bordering on criminal.
“BTW- classy response to a teenager who has just lost a sister.”
thanks! how do you know she’s a teenager?
“I guess I just weigh the loss of human life more than a stolen car.”
good for you. i didn’t realize that it was an either/or proposition. i try to consider both. it just gets a little annoying when folks blame others for their own shortcomings.

Ok Adam- this could be fun. My original phrase (if you don’t feel like scrolling up) was: Give them a break. Do you really expect people who lost a child to act rationally? I would have thought you could deduce that this was directed to the parents and not the children who stole a car.


how do you know she’s a teenager?

Touché!

it just gets a little annoying when folks blame others for their own shortcomings.
Yeah, the mourning are truly a “little annoying”.

My posts don’t seem to be making it. Earlier, I posted that if there was more respect for other people’s property there would be less lost of life.

The follow- up news reports are not good. I suspect the two survivors are going to kiddie prison for a long time. LINK

My posts don’t seem to be making it. Earlier, I posted that if there was more respect for other people’s property there would be less lost of life.

The follow- up news reports are not good. I suspect the two survivors are going to kiddie prison for a long time. LINK

“I would have thought you could deduce that this was directed to the parents and not the children who stole a car.”
i did; don’t you think that it’s feasible to believe that the “mourning” parents appear to have so neglected these juvenile offenders as to consider that negligence criminal?

“Do you really expect people who lost a child to act rationally?”
not in all cases (including this one) but i don’t believe that delusional accusations that are blatant attempts to shirk accountability are irrational. it seems to me these deflections are quite rational, rather calculated, and are indicative of a larger societal problem. “I would have thought you could deduce that”.

in this case, “the mourning are truly a “little annoying”.” i was summing up an overall trend; folks i reffered to, often times are mourning nothing at all.

don’t you think that it’s feasible to believe that the “mourning” parents appear to have so neglected these juvenile offenders as to consider that negligence criminal?

Yeah, that’s true. I can’t even imagine when I would have finally been released from my bedroom if I had ever come home at 4 in the morning when I was 12 years old.

That said, I don’t doubt that the grief of the parents is any less. If the government finds their neglect actionable they’ll have to face that- until then I wouldn’t spend time combing their statements for their rationality.

i don’t have to comb the statements to conclude that their deflections appear to be quite rational and rather calculated attempts to change the subject from their own culpability.

Not one person in this tragedy has said that what these kids did was right. Also, not every parent involved has tried to blame others for thier children’s decisions. Where were the “neglectful” parents? I will tell you that they were asleep, with no knowlege that their precious loved ones were planning to sneak out. I am sick of comments referring to the parents “letting the children run the roads at night”, there was no permission given. I know one of these families very well and I can assure you that this mother was very involved. Once she discovered that her daughter was missing, this mother was out serching all over Baytown for her. Her daughter was the light of her life. Why did this child make the decision to sneak out of her house and get into a stolen vehicle? This is a question that will haunt those of us who knew and loved her. The running theme seems to be that these children were criminals and got what they deserved. How sad! These “criminals” were people who were cherished by many. What they did was wrong, but the child I speak of had an entire lifetime of good decisions behind her. She was beautiful and talented. What a shame that she will be remembered by so many as a criminal, not worthy of respect.

Tonia,

Thanks for your thoughts on this.

I don’t believe the parents of the children who were killed were in any way negligent — with the possible exception of the mother of the kid who stole that jeep.

That kid had a history of sneaking out and of stealing cars — to include his own mothers. Even kids interviewed for this story claimed that he was able to sneak out “without consequences” from his mom.

The point I was wanting to make, though, is that in no way is this the railroads fault. Nor the fault of those other parents.

The entire blame of this extremely sad and tragic loss is on the kids themselves.

“I can assure you that this mother was very involved.”
thanks for the assurance; it just simply doesn’t appear that way.

“The running theme seems to be that these children were criminals and got what they deserved.”
i disagree. they were criminals but what they deserved was a trip through the legal system and a shit ton of hard labor to pay restitution to the property owners who they fucked over. please don’t misunderstand; i’m not pleased about their deaths. i just struggle to muster sympathy for people who get themselves killed doing dumb shit.

“What a shame that she will be remembered by so many as a criminal, not worthy of respect.”
i believe that she may have done things worthy of respect, but the thing she did that made news and got her killed was criminal. this is a shame. how does the public celebrate this young lady for accomplishments that we aren’t aware of?

Adam,

Let me assure you that NO ONE asked the public to muster sympathy for these kids. How this grieving mother “appears” to YOU really does not matter. Maybe you should not base an opinion of someone on a few minutes of media time. As for these children’s obligation to the property owners in this case, I am quite sure that the families involved will answer for any damages. But, I am sure that the “property owners” appreciate your concern. I agree, I too wish that the little girl I loved were here to answer for her actions.

The best part of all of this is that we are all free to give an opinion when something moves us to do so. The unfortunate part is that there will always be some opinions that are based merely on feelings instead of education.

You are a heartless bastard.
God forbid, one of your loved ones die in such a tragic way.
This article is ridiculous and dumb.
You’re dumb.
You are so dumb, that I just feel sorry for you.
I hope you never have to feel the pain that all of those families are feeling and will forever feel because those kids are never coming back.
Damn, How do you look yourself in the mirror every morning?

So everyone has lost interest. Mr M is getting ready to sue the train because his grandkids stole a car and went joy riding at 3 am.
Still not man enough to face the facts that no one forced these kids into that stolen car and if the kids had been doing the right thing at
this wrong thing would not have happened. Very SAD.

I hope non of the families profit from these deaths. It seems wrong that they should!

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