Comments on: Allenna Williams Ward — Teacher Sentenced to 6 Years for Sex w/ Five Students http://urbangrounds.com/2008/02/allenna-williams-ward/ Sometimes the truth hurts Tue, 14 Feb 2012 18:51:06 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: d-rap http://urbangrounds.com/2008/02/allenna-williams-ward/#comment-186143 d-rap Sun, 25 Sep 2011 04:19:43 +0000 http://urbangrounds.com/2008/02/19/allenna-williams-ward/#comment-186143 She getting off light. She getting off light.

]]> By: Anonymous http://urbangrounds.com/2008/02/allenna-williams-ward/#comment-162704 Anonymous Sat, 24 Apr 2010 06:20:44 +0000 http://urbangrounds.com/2008/02/19/allenna-williams-ward/#comment-162704 NO! laws are laws. if you think the statuatory rape law is wrong, try to get it changed. but apply it thoroughly to all situation that it applies to. NO! laws are laws. if you think the statuatory rape law is wrong, try to get it changed. but apply it thoroughly to all situation that it applies to.

]]> By: Anonymous http://urbangrounds.com/2008/02/allenna-williams-ward/#comment-162703 Anonymous Sat, 24 Apr 2010 06:17:33 +0000 http://urbangrounds.com/2008/02/19/allenna-williams-ward/#comment-162703 dont feed the troll editor dont feed the troll editor

]]> By: Anonymous http://urbangrounds.com/2008/02/allenna-williams-ward/#comment-162702 Anonymous Sat, 24 Apr 2010 06:15:00 +0000 http://urbangrounds.com/2008/02/19/allenna-williams-ward/#comment-162702 A male rapist in this situation would be in jail for a long time. nuff said A male rapist in this situation would be in jail for a long time. nuff said

]]> By: anonymous http://urbangrounds.com/2008/02/allenna-williams-ward/#comment-151083 anonymous Thu, 30 Apr 2009 21:38:32 +0000 http://urbangrounds.com/2008/02/19/allenna-williams-ward/#comment-151083 its not rape rape its Statutory rape thats why she going to jail the boys knew what they were doing but cant get in trouble for it i probally would of tapped that ass too its not rape rape its Statutory rape thats why she going to jail the boys knew what they were doing but cant get in trouble for it i probally would of tapped that ass too

]]> By: Anonymous http://urbangrounds.com/2008/02/allenna-williams-ward/#comment-149905 Anonymous Wed, 25 Mar 2009 16:11:06 +0000 http://urbangrounds.com/2008/02/19/allenna-williams-ward/#comment-149905 Of course boys can be raped and suffer psychologically from something like this but was it really what happened here? Shouldn't the investigation go a little deeper than: woman - adult, boy - underage, bam! case closed? Of course boys can be raped and suffer psychologically from something like this but was it really what happened here? Shouldn’t the investigation go a little deeper than: woman – adult, boy – underage, bam! case closed?

]]> By: Ed http://urbangrounds.com/2008/02/allenna-williams-ward/#comment-138139 Ed Fri, 11 Jul 2008 10:13:39 +0000 http://urbangrounds.com/2008/02/19/allenna-williams-ward/#comment-138139 I was raped when I as just shy of age 14 by a woman whom my Mom brought home and gave a place to live so that she could get her life together. While I did truly fantasize about sex all the time at that time, I was thoroughly unprepared for the reality of waking up with a grown woman lying on top of me. I was truly terrified, but because I was a "male," I was also terrified of saying no and having my peers find out (Everybody hung out at my house). So I laid there while she did all of those "wonderful" things that boys dream about. Frozen with fear and shock, I never could perform and walked away convinced that there was something wrong with me and that I must be a lousy male. While I did eventually get over it and learn to have adult, joyful sexual relations with women, this experience caused me years of pain, anxiety, and difficulty in relationships. Which is precisely why there are statutory rape laws. My rapist was acting out her own issues without regard for my well-being. Please try to avoid knee-jerk assumptions and stereotyping. Life is much more complicated than, maybe, many of us are comfortable dealing with. All the best, Ed I was raped when I as just shy of age 14 by a woman whom my Mom brought home and gave a place to live so that she could get her life together.

While I did truly fantasize about sex all the time at that time, I was thoroughly unprepared for the reality of waking up with a grown woman lying on top of me.

I was truly terrified, but because I was a “male,” I was also terrified of saying no and having my peers find out (Everybody hung out at my house). So I laid there while she did all of those “wonderful” things that boys dream about.

Frozen with fear and shock, I never could perform and walked away convinced that there was something wrong with me and that I must be a lousy male.

While I did eventually get over it and learn to have adult, joyful sexual relations with women, this experience caused me years of pain, anxiety, and difficulty in relationships.

Which is precisely why there are statutory rape laws.

My rapist was acting out her own issues without regard for my well-being.

Please try to avoid knee-jerk assumptions and stereotyping.

Life is much more complicated than, maybe, many of us are comfortable dealing with.

All the best,

Ed

]]> By: Herald http://urbangrounds.com/2008/02/allenna-williams-ward/#comment-134981 Herald Wed, 30 Apr 2008 22:01:50 +0000 http://urbangrounds.com/2008/02/19/allenna-williams-ward/#comment-134981 It doesn't make it right, but, I can remember being a teenage boy and I and my buddies would have jumped at the chance to do what these boys did. They aren't "victims" , they knew what they were doing, and today they are running around bragging about it. However, If a man did what this chick did, he'd never get out of jail. Seems like we have two separate sets of rules and laws here in this country, one for those "evil" men and one for those " innocent"," caring", & "compassionate" women that seem to dominate the public school system today. There are too many double standards in this country. No matter what the race or gender is, wrong is wrong & punishment should be applied equally & fairly. It doesn’t make it right, but, I can remember being a teenage boy and I and my buddies would have jumped at the chance to do what these boys did. They aren’t “victims” , they knew what they were doing, and today they are running around bragging about it. However, If a man did what this chick did, he’d never get out of jail. Seems like we have two separate sets of rules and laws here in this country, one for those “evil” men and one for those ” innocent”,” caring”, & “compassionate” women that seem to dominate the public school system today. There are too many double standards in this country. No matter what the race or gender is, wrong is wrong & punishment should be applied equally & fairly.

]]> By: Nick Just http://urbangrounds.com/2008/02/allenna-williams-ward/#comment-131415 Nick Just Thu, 21 Feb 2008 13:56:20 +0000 http://urbangrounds.com/2008/02/19/allenna-williams-ward/#comment-131415 The double standards the courts have with male and female rapists is really disgusting. She is a criminal. She was married and knowingly decided to have sex with five boys. Bigger taboo thrill. They were black. Six years is a joke. A male would have received twenty to life. Her father was a pastor. Think of the harm she has done to them as well as her husband. If this woman is ever allowed to teach again there is truly something wrong and unequal in our judicial system. Throw away the key. The double standards the courts have with male and female rapists is really disgusting. She is a criminal. She was married and knowingly decided to have sex with five boys. Bigger taboo thrill. They were black. Six years is a joke. A male would have received twenty to life. Her father was a pastor. Think of the harm she has done to them as well as her husband. If this woman is ever allowed to teach again there is truly something wrong and unequal in our judicial system. Throw away the key.

]]> By: maria http://urbangrounds.com/2008/02/allenna-williams-ward/#comment-131227 maria Wed, 20 Feb 2008 16:08:51 +0000 http://urbangrounds.com/2008/02/19/allenna-williams-ward/#comment-131227 I can't look at those boys as victims, but did anyone ever tought she isn't stronger as they are and they could fight her if they looked at sex as rape? of course not they liked it, but now it was rape? I can’t look at those boys as victims, but did anyone ever tought she isn’t stronger as they are and they could fight her if they looked at sex as rape? of course not they liked it, but now it was rape?

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