Two gentlemen I know, one is the elderly father, the other his son, returned from their trip to Mumbia(Bombay) India, late Monday afternoon. I should add, two very happy men full of joy returned home, to be met by very thankful family and friends.
I will relate, briefly, part of their story from the terrorist attack on their hotel.
The first thing you must know is this, the elderly gentleman, who became a client of mine fifteen years ago, and became a friend in the process, is one of the kindest, gentlest men one could ever know. Always smiling, ever cheerful, despite the ravages of time on his body, and that of his dear, sweet wife. As he is approaching ninety years of age, he is in remarkably good health, but isn’t as steady on his feet as he once was, and uses a rolling walker to remain mobile.
It his story that I will focus on, as I related to his son, that he needs to write about his experience. I will not name them, as I don’t want to risk infringing on their privacy. It is with the knowledge of his son, that I write about their experience, but from my perspective, as a friend who listened intently to their story, and could only imagine the perils they faced.
Let me start with this one sentence, that I want you to repeat over several times.
THE ELEVATOR DOOR WAS CLOSING AS THE TERRORISTS RAN INTO THE LOBBY, AND THE SHOOTING BEGAN!
To try and explain all of the mitigating factors that led to that very moment, when the elevator door was closing, isn’t very difficult, but the impact of that moment is even less difficult to understand.
It was a ‘God Moment.’
A moment, described in five categories by Pastor Alan D. Wright in his book ‘God Moments.’ The category applicable here is:
Amazing Rescue—a moment when God guarded you, healed you, rescued you, or made a way out for you.
A ‘God Moment’ can also be described as:
This usually is a special time when it is clear that God has intervened and shown Himself in an exceptional way. It is important to notice and appreciate these unique moments and interventions of our Heavenly Father. We must enjoy them and thank Him for a clear answer to prayer, a sudden revelation of His will, a perfect circumstance that is no chance happening, a provision for a need, or a deep feeling of love and worship. These moments are important to recognize.
I know some will hiss and moan, and say it was just “fate..luck..timing” that impacted this gentleman’s life, at that precise moment. To them I can only say, you cannot see, if you don’t open your eyes.
The events leading to that moment, and the subsequent forty eight hours they remained barricaded in their hotel room, were anything but ordinary. They were attending the Synchronicity Foundation’s gathering in Mumbia, and were guests at the Oberoi, as were the others in their group.
The day began with the typically huge breakfast buffet, then sight seeing, and visiting with friends; then the typically huge lunch buffet at the hotel, with their group session in the afternoon. After returning to the hotel, the son told his father, he was going to skip dinner, as he had been eating far too much, in recent days, and asked his father if he wanted dinner. The father replied that he did want some soup, but not a full dinner. So the son assisted his elderly father to the dining room, just off of the lobby of the Oberoi, and seated him with friends, and made him comfortable. While the father was in the dining room, the son went to the mall area, that connects the Oberoi Hotel to the Trident, though they are separate facilities. There he used the internet office facilities, to send and receive emails. Upon concluding his business there, he looked in on his elderly father, who was enjoying his light dinner with friends. He informed his father, that he was going to the room, as he was growing tired. This, according to the son, was highly unusual in itself, as he generally was up quite late, and on most nights would have remained in the lobby, reading or visiting with friends.
Shortly after, the father, with the assistance of one of the ladies in the group, who was staying on the same floor as the father and son, decided to go to their rooms.
This part of the story is where it first struck me, that this was a ‘God Moment.’ Why was this night different than the others? Why did the son not join them in the dining room? Why, at that precise moment, did they decide to head upstairs? And finally, why did the elevator door open for them, and close for them, at the precise moment that it did?
I already have explained why, but these were the immediate questions that hit me, when the story was related.
Still, there is more.
They barricaded themselves in their room for two days, living in fear of the unknown, knowing from phone calls and television reports, that there were muslim terrorists committing this mayhem, and actively seeking out “Westerners,” and they survived. My first thought was of the age of my friend, and how dangerous it is for an elderly man to become dehydrated or malnourished.
It seems the ‘God Moment’ became “moments.” For some inexplicable reason, they had procured liter bottles of water, some fruit juices, and some breads and snacks. This danger was removed, as was the danger of the smoke from the fires, that got into their room. The air conditioner helped remove the smoke, until the fires were extinguished.
I can only add, that the relief I feel, knowing that my friends are safely home, with their loving families and friends, is only exceeded by those same people.
I’ve had ‘God Moments’ myself, some more profound than others, but I came to realize what they were. Which is why I was able to see, that my friends presence in the elevator, and the door closing when it did, was truly a ‘God Moment’ for him.
I’m certain there are many tales to be told, some with tragic endings, about this horrific terrorist attack. However, this one has touched me personally, and I thought I would relate it, in terms of my understanding of what has happened.
I explained this event to one of my daughters, late Monday night, and she understood immediately, what I was telling her.
I also related to the son, whom I also consider a friend, and his wife, as they departed for home yesterday, that his father’s presence in the elevator, was a ‘God Moment.’ They both agreed, and their traumatized thoughts were replaced, for a moment, with a look of understanding in their eyes, that his father had indeed, experienced a ‘God Moment.’
Cross posted at L.O.M.A.




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That was quite the riveting story. How many times have you or someone you know said relative to a tragic event, “If it would have been 1 minute earlier” or something like that. Yes, I think most of us have had those God moments, whether we realize it or not.
I have to say I want to know more of this story. Did the terrorists try to get in their room? What were your friends thinking? What did they hear or see? I can only imagine.
And, I see you have your own blog…I may be a new reader.
The Riddle of Epicurus seems on point here:
Is God willing to prevent evil, but not able? Then he is not omnipotent.
Is he able, but not willing? Then he is malevolent.
Is he both able and willing? Then whence cometh evil?
Is he neither able nor willing? Then why call him God?
Pat – God gave us free will. If we didn’t have free will, we would not be any different than any other living thing on earth. With free will, comes good and evil. God does intervene, however, and when and why he does is a mystery which I believe will only be revealed to us after we die along with all the other mysteries of “life”. Have you ever thought about how idiot savants cannot tie their shoes, yet have the ability to do things that are unexplainable by science? We may very well have the knowledge of God within us but cannot see it.
Who’s free will are we talking about here?
The terrorists’ certainly expressed their free will. Too bad God didn’t give their victims that option.
Does a 5 year-old rape victim have free will, and if so,what good was it to her since her wish not to be raped was not granted by your God?
A lot of people would love to be able to fly like a bird. Why did God prevent that exercise of free will, but allowed us to murder people?
You’re right – it is a mystery – so why do religious folks claim to know where to fill in the gaps in our knowledge?
Pat, all I can say is you have the same free will as me. That child you describe is a victim of somebody’s free will to do evil. There are many things that happen that are too heinous to even think about and I can understand how you feel. For me, if I did not have God, I simply could not cope with these terrible things. I could not mentally survive.
Better people than me have tried to answer your questions. I can’t. And, I’ll just have to leave it at that.
Dianne, first of all, I contribute to LOMA, as I do here.
I’ve made some internet buds over the years, who trust me enough with the keys to the place, as long as I sweep up when I’m done, and don’t trash the place.
As for the rest of the story, they hunkered down in their room, barricaded the door with furniture, watched tv until it became repetitive in it’s reporting, and too overwhelming emotionally. No one tried to breech the door, thankfully, and the fires didn’t force them to leave their room. They had all basic services most of the time, but on the second day, they lost phone and water. Then the phones came back on, and the rescuers called them, and informed them what the code word would be when the commandos came to their door. They waited quite a while, before the rescue came, and they were told they were in the final group to be rescued.
One sad note, they did have to witness the carnage in the lobby, when they came down, and the son was asked to help identify bodies. The father and daughter from their group were among them. I strongly encouraged him to write about what had happened, and too seek counseling, as he is at risk for the pernicious PTSD.
As for non-believers, I don’t care what they say, or about their doubts or misgivings. I know from experience, that believing in God is a personal journey. How could I possibly know why he does what he does? As St. Anselm of Canterbury said, in his Proslogion, God is “something greater than which cannot be thought.”
Remarkable story. I’m thankful that your friends are safe.
Thanks for sharing this with us.
No2 – I read the St. Anselm reference and have bookmarked it for rereading. I “think” that’s what I think too.
Thanks for the additional information on your friends.